The month of love is still a few weeks away but it would be in your best interest if you start thinking about what to give your better half on that special day. Forget about diamond rings and expensive smartphones. If you wish to show your loved one how much she really means to you, give her the top self-defense tools for women on Valentine’s Day.
Langxun Keychain Folding Pocket Knife
Whenever your significant other is leaving the office or the store and walking to her car, she should always have her keys out and in her hands ready to open the door. And if someone approaches her with bad intentions, she should be quick to whip out the 2.1-inch stainless steel blade smartly hidden in a faux house key.

Each purchase includes two key chain knives. These self-defense tools are perfect gift ideas for any occasion, including Valentine’s Day. Just include a note that says, “The key to my heart” and watch as your lady love swoons over Mr. Cheesy.
EIOU Anti-Wolf Self-Defence Key Chain
Key chains are popular covers for self-defense tools. This Anti-Wolf Self-Defense Keychain from EIOU looks like a simple keychain accessory but it’s actually a weapon of mass destruction. Okay, I was just kidding.

The 5.5-inch self-defense tool is made of aviation aluminium and has a pointed end, which simply means it will hurt pretty bad. It comes in a pack of five so you can give one to your better half, another to your mother-in-law, and the rest to her girlfriends.
Sabre Red Lipstick Pepper Spray for Women
“Oh look, the pretty lady’s gonna put on some lipstick. Let me help you with… aaarggghhh!”
Yep, that’s how things may play out when some douchebag approaches you and tries to play it smooth. The Sabre Red Lipstick Pepper Spray provides twelve bursts of a powerful formula that’s guaranteed by the company to stop someone in their tracks.

Each powerful burst can reach up to ten feet, which gives you enough ample distance to stop your attacker and escape harm. The liquid has UV marking dye, which can help identify your attacker. This is another reason why such self-defense tools from Sabre Red are quite popular with authorities and consumers alike.
Sabre Red Key Case Pepper Spray with Quick Release Key Ring
One of the keys to a successful attempt to thwart attackers is to think fast and act fast. Once there’s trouble, you should be able to grab any of your self-defense tools in a jiffy. The longer it takes you to get your EDC, the higher the chances of you getting mugged or attacked.

The Key Case Pepper Spray from Sabre Red employs a quick-release key ring so you can easily use it when the need arises. It also releases a powerful stream that can reach up to 10 feet. Plus, the instance of the liquid being blown back to you is greatly minimized.
Guard Dog Electra Lipstick Stun Gun with LED Flashlight
You can’t bring your dog everywhere to guard you from bad people. You can, however, carry a Guard Dog Security Electra Lipstick Stun Gun and defend yourself from perverts, robbers, and even rabid dogs.

This shrewdly concealed stun gun only weighs 6.9 ounces but deals 3 million volts of what-the-heck-were-you-thinking-attacking-me-like-that. Not only that, this lipstick stun gun also comes with a blinding 100 lumens flashlight, which can brighten up to 50 yards away.
Terminator Cell Phone Stun Gun
Arnold Schwarzenegger it is not but the Terminator Cell Phone Stun Gun definitely packs a punch. This is perhaps one of the cleverest ways to disguise a stun gun. Whenever you feel unsafe, simply take out your faux smartphone and pretend to be texting. And if someone tries to attack you, simply give them what they deserve. Well, they probably deserve a pat on the cheek with a baseball bat but a jolt of high voltage shock from the 6.4-ounce Terminator seems good enough.

The Terminator Cell Phone Stun Gun also comes with a long-lasting rechargeable LED flashlight, which can be used to temporarily blind your attacker so you can make your escape. The internal battery only needs to be recharged every five months so you really don’t have to worry about it giving up on you when you need it most.
Vipertek Mini Stun Gun with LED Flashlight
The Vipertek Mini Stun Gun is not as discreet as the other two stub guns in this list of self-defense tools perfect for Valentine’s Day. But that doesn’t mean it’s less effective.

In fact, this compact stun gun can scare the bejesus out of anyone just by the menacing electrical sound it produces when tested. Of course, if expect to be shocked and disoriented for a while it happens to touch you when the electrical current pulsates. Make sure it’s legal in your state first before purchasing one for Valentine’s Day.
Fury Tactical Kuba-Kickz Self Defense Control Device
Sometimes, the best self-defense tools are your feet. Just one kick to the groin and you can render your attacker motionless giving you time to make your great escape.

Kuba-Kickz gives new meaning to kick-ass. It’s one of the most unique self-defense weapons around as it’s the only one that’s designed specifically to be placed on shoes. It’s made of durable plastic that can withstand high impact. The three pointed tips are enough to hurt but are non-lethal. Releasing a mean kick to the family jewels does not require extensive training. However, you your lady should still get some proper self-defense training.
Strike Spike Self-Defense/Counterattack Tool
Some people likes to slap other people when they are really, really, really mad. While violence is never a solution to any quarrels, slapping is certainly an option when you are being attacked. However a slap top the face can only do so much. What you can do is slap your attacker with your hat or cap. Just don’t forget to attach Strike Spikes to the back of your favorite cap first.

The Strike Spike is a set of three small but terrible self-defense tools. The aluminium discs come with sharp spikes that will make you quiver just looking at them. You can also attach them to the strap of your watch or to your shoelaces.
Gifts Infinity Tac-Force Titanium Coated Stainless Steel Pocket Knife with Free Engraving
There’s no better gift for Valentine’s Day than something that’s really personal. And what’s more personal than a pink pocket knife with the name of your darling engraved on it?

Gifts Infinity offers a wide selection of pocket knives that can be customized by simply choosing your preferred font for the name. You can also go for a monogram, though it’s limited to three letters. The particular pocket knife in the photo above comes with a stainless steel half serrated blade, a screwdriver and pocket clip.
Self-defense tools don’t have to be huge and menacing. Though such things as Bowie knives and sub-machine guns will make any potential attacker think twice, you just can’t put them in a purse. Those listed here, however, are perfect for everyday carry.
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