14 Life-Saving Self-Defense Tools to Give Her On Valentine’s Day


For many couples, it’s impossible to be beside each other 24/7. One or both of you have to go to work so you’re not together for most of the day. There’ll also be instances when either of you goes out to run errands, hang out with friends, visit relatives, or spend some alone time. It’s perfectly normal to be worried about your special someone when you’re not with her. Relieve some of your worries by making sure she has what she needs to keep herself safe from any harm. You don’t need an occasion to get your sweetheart a present but since it’s love month, you should take advantage of the opportunity and decide on what life-saving self-defense tools to give her on Valentine’s Day.



EDC Survival Bundle by Frog & CO

Love knows no boundaries so why limit your Valentine’s Day present to one item? Make sure your loved one is safe in whatever situation she finds herself in by getting her a survival kit. The EDC Survival Bundle by Frog & CO contains a number of life-saving self-defense tools along with other survival items.

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For self-defense, the bundle has a tactical pen, a tactical flashlight, and a pocket knife with a seatbelt cutter and glass breaker. When she’s stranded outdoors she can start a fire with the fire starter, tinder, and pocket bellow. The emergency blanket will help keep her warm and can also reflect the sun to start a fire or signal for help. If she’s hurt, there are some sterile gauze pads, alcohol pads, and Band-aids. Other survival tools included in the bundle and kept in a waterproof box are a survival bracelet, 7-in-1 multi-use spork, 1-in-1 credit card size tool, wire saw, compass, fishing kit, screwdrivers, water bottle clip, and a carabiner.

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LifeShield Self-Defense Kit by Frog & CO

Frog & CO has another set of self-defense tools that can be given as a gift bundle. The LifeShield Self-Defense Kit includes three of the most popular self-defense tools in the market — a stun gun, pepper spray, and a personal alarm.

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The stun gun has a strength of 2.2 million volts which should be enough to make her attacker rethink their life choices. The 3.2-ounce non-lethal weapon measures just 4.14 inches long and 2.15 inches wide so it fits perfectly in any handbag or clutch bag. It comes with a lanyard rope to prevent the user from dropping it.

The pepper spray is capable of up to 25 bursts that can reach 10 feet away. That’s a good distance to keep an attacker at bay and make an escape. The 6-inch pepper spray has a capacity of 3.7 ounces and a shelf life of up to 3 years. More importantly, the non-lethal weapon has a 98% spraying reliability so you’re assured it’ll work when you need it most.

The personal alarm produces 120 decibels of sound that reaches up to 600 feet away. The 3.8-inch self-defense tool can be attached to her bunch of keys or belt loop for easy access.

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Make sure she takes all three self-defense tools with her everywhere she goes. Even at home, these tools should always be nearby in case of a home intrusion.


Mace Keyguard Mini Pepper Spray

Pepper spray is perhaps the most popular of all self-defense tools of choice since women can protect themselves against attackers without having to use any deadly force. A pepper spray can be carried discreetly but is easily accessible. It can be kept in the pocket, belt, or strap using the tactical clip or holder.

There are pepper sprays disguised as common items such as lipstick cases, pens, or key chains. They are easily accessible and easy to use even in the dark. These non-lethal weapons should come in handy in case your lady encounters a threat. Make sure she practices grabbing and pretend-spraying. With enough practice, muscle memory will kick in when she needs to use her pepper spray.

The Mace 80811 Keyguard Mini Pepper Spray comes with a keyring so it can easily be attached to a keychain for fast and easy access. It has a flip-top safety cap that can easily be flicked to expose the actuator button to press down on it. It comes in pink and black versions so it can easily blend in with your wife’s everyday carry (EDC).

The Keyguard Mini Pepper Spray has a range of up to 5 feet and contains only 6 bursts. If your wife already has a pepper spray, you can still get her the Mace Mini as her Valentine’s Day present since it’s a good backup self-defense tool.


Gerber Impromptu Tactical Pen

Tactical pens are not your ordinary office or school item, they’re also life-saving self-defense tools. They not only function as writing tools but also as non-lethal weapons and survival gear.

With the right training, she can effectively use a tactical pen to knock out or at least hurt an aggressor enough to make her escape. It’s normally used as a kubotan, a self-defense keychain weapon developed by karate master Sōke Takayuki Kubota.

Tactical pens usually come with built-in glass breakers. It’ll be useful when she needs to bust out of a car or a room that has toughened glass. Tactical pens can also be used to break the glass of a fire extinguisher box.

The Impromptu Multi-Purpose Tactical Pen by Gerber is made from durable steel with a Cerakote finish for better resistance to wear and tear. It protects the pen from the effects of chemicals, corrosion, and abrasion. The Impromptu has a built-in glass breaker tip and a stainless steel pocket clip.

The 5.58-inch and 2.4-ounce survival tool utilizes a push-button system that makes sure the ballpoint is deployed without hassle. The Rite in the Rain ink cartridge, meanwhile, ensures that the tactical tool will write even in wet conditions.



CRKT Williams Defense Key

The key to surviving an attack is to have the right self-defense tool and the proper skills to use it. The Williams Defense Key by Columbia River Knife & Tool may look like an unassuming key but it packs a wallop when used as a weapon.

The Williams Defense Key is made of stainless steel and glass-filled nylon. The 3.57 -inch long self-defense tool has a Phillips head for screwing and for hurting people who want to screw with your lady. The ergonomic handle is balanced and has a secure grip so she can easily and securely hold it between her fingers. With the lanyard hole, she can attach it to her keychain.


MUNIO Kubotan Personal Safety Keychain EDC Tool

Your safety is in your hands, literally and figuratively. You can’t always depend on the authorities or other people to keep you safe and secure. You won’t be able to protect your loved one every second of every minute. Remind her to not put herself in a situation in which her safety is threatened. However, even if she’s really careful, she can’t control what other people do. If someone approaches her in a threatening manner, she should be ready to escape or defend herself.

The Kubotan Personal Safety Keychain by MUNIO is designed to be used as a weapon when the need arises. It’s made of lightweight ABS plastic and has curves in the right places giving you a more secure, comfortable, and effective grip. With this self-defense tool, your lady’s safety is indeed in her hands.


Thopeb The Original Self-Defense Siren Keychain

Personal alarms are great self-defense tools, too. They emit a loud noise that creates a distraction and draws attention to you in case you need help. It can deter an attack since the person can be startled by the loud sound making them think twice about approaching you further. A personal alarm can also get the attention of rescuers if you’re lost or stranded and in need of medical help.

The Original Self Defense Sire Keychain by Thopeb is the perfect Valentine’s Day present for people who are too afraid to use weapons — lethal or otherwise. This self-defense tool produces an ear-splitting 125 decibels of sound with a range of up to 100 meters. It also lights up to make it easier to spot you, especially in the dark. Aside from your spouse, you should also gift this life-saving survival tool to your mom, sister, grandparents, and other loved ones.


MoraKniv Companion Heavy-Duty Knife

When deciding on what life-saving self-defense tools to get her on Valentine’s Day, pocket knives should definitely be considered. It’s like saying you’ll carve out your heart just to prove your love. Of course, you’re not telling her to do the same for you. Stop being too conceited.

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A pocket knife will help your lady feel safe knowing that she can defend herself when out in a dangerous situation. Then again, she shouldn’t be looking for a fight or going superhero mode just because she has a knife.

The MoraKniv Companion Heavy Duty Knife is an excellent choice for self-defense tools to give your wife or girlfriend on Valentine’s Day. Its carbon steel blade is super sharp while the handle is made of TPE rubber giving it a better grip even when wet. The half-tang blade is 4.1 inches long while the whole knife measures 8.8 inches. It weighs just 0.3 pounds so she can carry and use it without being burdened.


Survival Neck Knife

A self-defense tool hanging by her neck? While she probably can’t take the Survival Neck Knife to the office or when she picks up the kids at school, this survival tool will come in pretty handy when she goes on an outdoor adventure like hiking or camping. It’s also a good idea to keep one in her emergency kit.

The Survival Neck Knife is 5.5 inches long with a fixed blade measuring just 2.9 inches. It’s pretty light so it won’t wear her neck down even if she wears it the whole day. The blade is made of 440c stainless steel with a satin finish while the black G10 handle comes with a lanyard hole where you can tie a paracord, another vital survival item. This self-defense weapon also comes with other survival tools, particularly a compass and signal mirror. These two are integrated into the nylon fiber sheath.



Tactical Pen Knife

John Wick did it with a pencil but your lady is no trained hitwoman. Or is she? Secret lives aside, you should get your significant other a Tactical Pen Knife for Valentine’s Day. This self-defense tool looks like an ordinary pen but yields a partially serrated blade that she can use to fight off bad guys or fellow assassins.

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The Tactical Pen Knife is made of aircraft-grade aluminum that’s strong enough to break an opponent’s face when used as a kubotan. The 2.5-inch serrated knife, meanwhile, is great for slashing and stabbing. Hopefully, just the presence of the Tactical Pen Knife is enough to deter any attacker. If not, this survival tool should still give your lady the upper hand when she’s in a dangerous situation.

The tool is compact and lightweight at 5.5 inches long and 1.6 ounces. It fits perfectly in a purse or handbag. Since it’s a writing tool, she can keep it in her pocket and use it for work.


StatGear T3 Tactical Auto Rescue Tool

A tactical knife does more than just slice and dice. It does plenty of other tasks that’ll help increase one’s chance of survival. Take the T3 Tactical Auto Rescue Tool, for example. This multi-purpose knife by StatGear sports a half-serrated 440c stainless steel blade, a hook blade for cutting seatbelts, a spring-loaded steel pommel for breaking glasses, and an LED light with replaceable batteries. It even has a steel belt clip and a nylon sheath.

Bringing a tactical tool like the T3 wherever she goes will help her be ready for anything. Whenever she’s driving or riding public transport, she’ll always have a chance to get out of the vehicle in case they get into an accident. The built-in flashlight will come in handy when it’s dark while the knife, well, you know what one can do with a knife, especially with proper training.


ASP Talon Tactical Baton

Cops use it in their line of work so it makes sense that a tactical baton is one of the most effective self-defense tools to give her on Valentine’s Day. The Talon Telescopic Tactical Baton employs two opposing discs that cam into an internal groove drilled into each tube that spring into action fast and retracts with a simple push of a button. The lightweight ASP Talon is made of durable steel with a Cerakote finish so it’s meant to last no matter how many times she uses it to whack the daylight out of people who didn’t know better.


SureFire E2D Defender Ultra LED Flashlight

A tactical flashlight is another one of the more popular life-saving self-defense tools. These lighting tools emit intense light that can temporarily blind and disorient a threat long enough for her to flee to safety or give the attacker a good whack on the head. Tactical flashlights are made of hard and durable material that makes them effective blunt weapons. Get your significant other plenty of these self-defense tools so she’ll have at least one in her EDC kit, car emergency kit, get home bag, and bug out bag. Like other tactical tools, she needs to undergo some training to fully utilize them in self-defense.

The SureFire E2D Defender Ultra LED Flashlight produces 5 to 1000 lumens of white light that’s about 10 times brighter than what’s needed to temporarily blind an attacker and stop them in their tracks. It is made of sturdy aluminum with an anodized finish and has a scalloped tail cap and crenelated bezel that’ll surely make each strike hurt more.

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The 5.6-inch tactical flashlight can be used in any weather condition thanks mainly to its weatherproof O-ring and gasket sealing. The pocket clip lets her carry the survival tool with its head up or down, whichever makes it easier for her to grab and pummel her attacker.


NightCap Drink Cover Scrunchie

On the days or nights that your wife or girlfriend goes out with her friends, you want her to not let her guard down and come home safe and sound. You also want her to have fun without worrying about people spiking her drink.

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NightCap Drink Covers are the perfect accessory to add a level of safety when entering bars or clubs. This everyday carry essential is not like the other self-defense tools on this list. It won’t help her fight off or stop an attack. It does, however, protect your lady from getting drugged and assaulted.

The concept behind the NightCap is pretty simple — cover the glass to prevent others from slipping drugs. The drink cover is made of nylon/spandex and is hidden inside the scrunchie. When she goes out, she can wear the scrunchie on her hair or around her wrist. She just then has to get the cover, wrap it around the lid of her glass, and stick a straw through it. These caps come in various colors and fit most glasses, mugs, and cups.


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When it comes to your lady’s safety, there are no stones left unturned. Make sure she’s always ready to defend herself from threats and safe during emergencies by getting her as many life-saving self-defense tools as she can carry. The 14 outstanding products that we listed here could help her live a little more like Wonder Woman. These self-defense tools are not enough, though. Women and everybody else, for that matter, should always keep in mind that safety starts with your attitude. If you keep your safety and security more seriously, then you may not have a need for such weapons. Of course, it’s always a good idea to have them in hand because you’ll never know what may happen. Discover more of such survival gear over at Gentleman Pirate Club.


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